Oncken Counseling Svcs A Mars & Venus Counseling Center

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Gerald Oncken, Ph.D. and Joan Oncken, M.Ed., M.A., LMFT have been personally trained by Dr. John Gray, author of Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus and numerous other titles. Click to learn more about us.

Open new possibilities for rich, fulfilling lives and relationships;
Learn skills and know how in the areas of communication, conflict resolution, and relationship enhancement;
Develop improved communication, rekindled romance, deeper intimacy, and lasting passion in your relationships;
Experience relief and recovery from the debilitating effects of anger, infidelity, depression, trauma, shame, anxiety, grief, and guilt.

Relationship Services. We are specialists in promoting and restoring healthy, happy relationships among spouses, partners, family members, and work colleagues. We offer specific, practical ways to communicate and relate to one another so you can break the frustrating cycles of blame, defensiveness, stonewalling, and repetitive conflicts. By applying some new ideas and simple skills, you will find that many times, small adjustments can make a big difference. Click for more about our relationship services.

Individual Services. Many people find the quality of their lives diminished because of the effects of issues including trauma & abuse, anxiety, stress, depression, shame, grief, guilt, excessive anger, dysfunctional relationships spiritual crises, and life transitions. We offer individual and group counseling to help you achieve relief and transformation in these troubling areas. Learn more about our individual services by clicking here:individual services.

What others are saying:
"I would not be where I am today without the help and guidance you have provided when I needed it so much."
"When we first started this process I was in a state of confusion and despair. . . Now I have learned the skills I need to make our marriage work. . . Each day I feel closer and more connected to him than I ever would have thought possible with one human being."
"I feel more love for my wife now that I have a better understanding of how she operates"